I try to get it together enough, once a year to get family pictures in! Its so hard sometimes, especially when there are 6 people to account for! This year we had scheduled and cancelled our family photoshoot at least 4 times within 6 months. Having to cancel for kids coming up sick the night before, for me feeling sick and insecure about how I look ( I know, insert eye roll), for bad weather, for figuring out when we could squeeze in a night that would fit our hectic schedule and when we were going to be brave enough to keep them all up past their bed time!
Its definitely not easy and the price of everything can add up so quickly especially for a family of 6! So I wanted to share with you guys how I figure our what we are wearing and try to keep it pretty cheap!
1- Find a color scheme!
Now after having a few family shoots I’ve realized I stick with pretty much the same color scheme. I try and do something that will last in pictures all year. Nothing too bright and summery but also nothing that is too wintery! I want to be able to use the pictures through out the year on Christmas cards, or birthdays and to print to put up around the house.
2- Pick out your outfit first and then plan around that.
How many of us moms feel the most uncomfortable in front of the camera or insecure about our bodies since having babies? I was really struggling to be excited for pictures when I not only had just had my 4th baby and had extra baby weight, but had also been struggling with hypothyroidism and hashimotos, that at one point had me gain 12 lbs, on top of the baby weight, in one month (which we will save the details of that for another post) So needless to say I was really uncomfortable… In EVERYTHING! That’s why this purchase was a splurge because it covered all the things I was insecure about but still made me feel like I looked good. I will add that this dress was definitely a splurge for me, normally I would find something much cheaper. I also plan to use it for some styled photoshoots I have in mind, so for me it was a win/win! But guys, if you are uncomfortable in what you are in, it will definitely show on camera. Get something that you love and makes you feel good. I really didn’t want to miss capturing this stage just because I was uncomfortable with myself and this dress helped!
3- Find clothes that have similar colors but aren’t exactly the same.
I like to figure out how to match everyone without being too matchy matchy. I am a visual person, so what also helps me put it all together is copy and pasting everything I plan on buying together on a blank page to make sure it all goes together nicely, since it isn’t all matching. With this photoshoot I ended up buying this lulus maxi dress in burgundy, so I wanted Sophie to match me by getting her a dress with pinks and maroons in it. She loves flowers so I knew she would love it! It also had some blueish tones so I decided to get the boys light blue and navy blue. For Oliver I knew I wanted to add something different so I found this really cute suspender and bow tie set! Since it was a little big I ended up tucking in the suspenders a bit and then using the bow on Leo, since he was wearing a lighter color shirt. Also Max usually always steal the show with his light hair and baby blue eyes so I wanted Leo to stand out a little more! And last but not least, my husband. He is always last to figure out what to wear. He usually picks his own thing last minute and as long as it somewhat matches, I don’t mind! This time he just happened to have a few polos that would match everyone so he literally picked one walking out the door!
4. Shop Shop Shop.
It definitely took some time searching sales, coupons and promo codes to find what I wanted for the best deals! Also try to be mindful of when sales are happening! The best thing about doing ours in July is that MOST stores are having major end of summer sales! Also look at places that usually have the best clothes for the price. My top shops for kids clothes are Old navy, H&M, Target and Amazon! For me, there are so many of us that if we are paying full price for new clothes for everyone, it would be SO expensive! For instance the polos were on sale for 5$. I found Leos button up chambray top that was a gift, from who knows when in their closet and their jeans were 8$ a piece. Sophies dress was on sale for 15 and I found Oliver’s suspenders on amazon for 12$ Which totally beats the price of buying a whole 3 piece baby set that would probably never been worn again for 25$ Also sign up for those email offers!! I have a email that is just for shops and all the sales they send. 9 times out of 10, I will find an email with some percentage off or free shipping! Every little bit counts!
5. Buy something that can be worn over and over again!
I mean in all reality we are lucky if we are going to get a whole full hour of well behaved children sitting still and trying to get a half way decent photo. There is no point on spending a ton of money for something they will never wear again. I try to stick with something a little more then everyday wear, polos for the boys and a cute dress for Sophia. The boys already had pretty decent boots to wear so I only had to buy some for Sophia and they are something she can wear with jeans throughout the winter. Also adding accessories helps making it look a little more dressed up. Bows for girls and cheap bow ties for boys!
And after all that work mommas, set VERY LOW expectations! They are kids. They were made to be little animals. They aren’t used to having to sit still, with most likely a stranger taking pictures of them. I went into this shoot telling the photographer I would just be happy to have 1 good picture of all 6 of us. ONE. But luckily we got so many good ones! I know its not easy (literally ALL our kids were crying as we were running out the door, and I was half dressed) its stressful but make the time, save the money. It will all be so worth it, because how often are us mommas in the pictures with our littles.
I also want to sent a HUGE shoutout to T.Rayne Photography for being so amazing and capturing these memories, even if we were sweating our faces off, you still seemed to make us look good and like we had it together! And I’m pretty sure Leo hasn’t stopped talking about you since we left!
Here are a few more of my favorites from our shoot! And all the links to our outfits, keep in mind the prices have varied!
I hope you enjoyed this post!
Thanks for stopping by,
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